01 Oct Why joining MATRIARCH is scary AF
Choosing to become the MATRIARCH in your life is scary AF. There’s no other way to put it.
I know what Hell on Earth feels like. I bet that you do too. But you can set yourself free!
In 2 weeks time, you could be officially starting your MATRIARCH journey as the Opening Ceremony of the fall program is happening October 15th!
You might be thinking about joining the program. Heck, you might be thinking about it since I first launched the life-changing program back in summer 2023!
However, there’s a part of you that’s scared. You’re wondering if the program is what you really need. You’re not sure if its the right time, whether you’re right for the program, and if you should be joining a program at all.
I feel you. This is normal.
Let me tell you something: being the MATRIARCH of your life is no easy feat.
And making the conscious decision to enroll in a program where you will begin your journey to being the MATRIARCH in your life is scary AF. There’s no other way of saying it.
I acknowledge you for even considering it. To me, its a sign that you’re ready. Because I truly believe that in order to thrive we must become the MATRIARCH of our lives.
What I mean by this is that:
- We must reclaim our power as women and create lives that are in alignment with our soul and true nature.
- We must find a way to be the leaders we need today that will inspire the next generation.
- We also need to heal the part of ourselves which was lost perhaps in this lifetime or that was passed down to us by our ancestors.
My hope with this program is to make your journey as beautiful and painless as possible.
But the truth is, the MATRIARCH Program is kind of like childbirth. Except YOU are birthing a new you and every woman’s experience will be unique.
I can tell you all the nitty gritty details which you can find HERE or read below. But! The truth is that your transformation and birthing process is going to be something we go through together. I’m here to be your midwife and support you every step of the way.
I’ll also say that the journey to becoming and being the MATRIARCH in your life is ongoing. It is a process of becoming and unbecoming.
I believe that my process started back in November 2020.
Alicia was about 6 months old. I was just finding my footing and crawling as a mom. It was a magical time while simultaneously the beginning of what would be the hardest and darkest period of my life as it was during this time that my relationship with my daughter’s father started to breakdown.
I can still see myself standing in the kitchen during a defining moment when I ignored my intuition and gave my power away.
I can still see how painful that time was and feel gratitude for how much I’ve grown because instead of saving the relationship, I saved myself and discovered who I really was.
I invested heavily in my personal and professional development to figure out who the fuck I was. And reconnect to my truth. I reconnected to a vision for my life that came from the depths of me, not my logical mind that was trying to fix something that was irrevocably broken and terrified of breaking up our family.
In doing so, I reset my internal compass, redefined the values most aligned with my soul, and did the hard work of living true to these by changing my way of being, setting and enforcing boundaries, and speaking up even when my voice shook.
I rebuilt my life from scratch and it was messy. It was so fucking hard. However, the MATRIARCH in me was alive. She guided me. She kept me going when I wanted to quit. She knew I was more powerful than what I often gave myself credit for.
I sometimes want to push the MATRIARCH in me away. But I can’t now. She’s in me helping me stay the course no matter what.
My life isn’t glamorous nor do I have a shiny new car in my parking lot. But what I do have is a deep knowing that I’m living my truth and doing my best to do so. I’m not living anybody else’s life.
I’m just here being me: waking up naturally with my daughter, taking long walks in the woods midday with my dog, working a few hours a day from my home office or kitchen table, preparing meals that not only nourish but also heal me, catching sunrises with my arms wide open, watching sunsets from my stand up paddle board, saying NO more than I say YES, failing more than I succeed, learning from my mistakes, getting back up after every fall, taking responsibility for my life, dancing in my living room, taking cold showers, crying when I need to, loving hard no matter how hurt I’ve been, writing what my soul wants to read, doing the deep work so that I can show up for my soul’s purpose and coach women who want to show up as themselves in the world too.
I know what Hell on Earth feels like. I bet that you do too. But you can set yourself free!
Becoming the MATRIARCH in my life allowed me to use the flames of Hell to light my inner fire and meet the woman I am meant to be everyday by looking in the mirror. If you want to become the woman you are meant to be and awaken the MATRIARCH in you, I’d love to have you join us for the upcoming program.
If you feel ready to light your inner fire and say YES, you can enrol HERE.
If you want more info or have questions, you can check out the program webpage or send an email to info@melissacolleret.com so that we can connect!
If you are clear that this program isn’t for you yet know someone who may need it, please share this post with them or connect them directly with me by email, info@melissacolleret.com
As always, thank you for being here!
With love & light,
Melissa
More about the MATRIARCH Program
MATRIARCH: Reclaim your power and create a life aligned with your soul
In just 10 weeks, you’ll go from feeling overwhelmed and confused about what’s next in your life to feeling powerful and clear about your path forward in both your personal and professional life. You’ll experience the joy, confidence, and energy that come from reclaiming your feminine power and living in harmony with your authentic self, free from external pressures and fully aligned with your true values.
You will:
- Discover Who You Really Are: Reclaim your power and unleash the sovereign woman within by identifying your core values and beliefs, raising your standards, and creating rituals that honor your authentic self so you can move forward with clarity, confidence, and grace.
- Find Your Path Forward: Develop a compelling vision for your life to find your true north and channel your focus and energy into the one area that will create the most meaningful shift in your life right now, whether it be professional or personal. For example: quitting your job to finally start your own business, carving out the time to write (and publish) the book you’ve been putting off for years, or calling in your dream man and starting a family.
- Take Aligned Action: Learn to take action that resonates with your natural rhythms and seasons, creating space for what you truly desire without the pressure or hustle.
We begin our 10-week journey together on October 15th.
Weekly coaching calls are on Tuesdays from 2pm-3:30pm EST. All of which will be recorded.
Now here’s the breakdown of what we will cover in each part and session of the program:
YOUR MATRIARCH ROADMAP
Part I: Creating Fertile Ground
Session 1: Opening Ceremony
Our first call together is an opportunity to meet and connect with the amazing women who are also starting their Matriarch journey. You will learn the 7 Guiding Lights that will support you throughout our 10-weeks together and beyond. You’ll get honest about where you are starting from (without blame and shame) and plant new seeds for your dreams.
Session 2: Make Room
In create massive shifts in your life, you must make sure your inner and outer world are clean. This session is all about setting up your environment in order for you to shift your energy, get rid of what no longer serves you, and build the courage to face what you have been avoiding in your life!
Bonus Session: Release Ceremony
The Release Ceremony is a healing and liberating experience. This is where you get to let all that has been weighing on you out and be witnessed as you release the pain and open your heart to new possibilities. It is a sacred experience where you get to let go of the old you with love.
Part II: A New Way of Being
Session 3: Step Into Possibility
Chances are you already know what you want but are out of practice with seeing past the bullshit excuses, fear, and doubt that keeps you stuck. In this session you will ignite your turn ON and allow yourself to dream again!
Session 4: Visioning
Here’s where you get to break-free of the patterns in your life by shifting your attention and energy from your past to cultivating a vision that lights your soul on fire! I’ll guide you through various tools to tune-in and unleash the vision that is inside of you and waiting to come alive! This is where what your rational mind gets a wake up call from what you true self is really here for.
Session 5: Awaken The Matriarch
Get excited because you will get up and take a stand as the powerful woman you truly are! I’ll guide you to build a solid foundation for yourself, aligned with your vision and values (which we will refine!). You’ll declare who you are, to yourself first, and then to the group of women cheering you on. You’ll toss out beliefs that keep you small and step into a new belief system aligned with you. I’ll help you set boundaries so that you can enjoy the practices and rituals the real you needs to feel nourished, inspired, and empowered.
Part III: Aligned Action
Session 6: Align Your Life
There’s something you are here to become and do. In this session I will help you streamline your ideas so that you can channel your focus and energy into the project or goal that lights up your soul. Be it personal or professional, you will feel the burst of energy that comes from identifying, declaring, and taking your first steps onto the path that has been waiting for you!
Session 7: Learn The Art Of Soulful Productivity
Are you done with the hustle culture and ready to free yourself from patriarchal conditioning? This session is where I’ll show you how to get things done in a way that aligns with the seasons, cycles, and rhythms of nature and your true nature! You’ll create a structure that allows you to flow, bridge the gap between your current and ideal reality, and transform your relationship with time such that it becomes your ally! We need to stop normalizing overwhelm, burnout, and compromising our needs as woman. Soulful Productivity is a new way of being and doing that honours all that you are!
Session 8: Closing Ceremony
Here’s a secret, the end of the journey is actually just the beginning! However, before making your next leap, we take the time to celebrate your wins and transformation. You’ll leave feeling deeply connected to who are and excited about the path forward.
BONUSES:
- There will be a Bonus Session designed to create space and avoid ever feeling rushed on the journey. It is possible that we will need more time to cover the work above and/or space to dive into something that will serve you and the group.
- 3 months of ongoing support via the MATRIARCH Membership! If you’re craving your home for your personal, professional, and spiritual growth alongside sisters who you’re inspired by and want to continue developing deep and meaningful relationships with, the membership is where it’s at! You’ll have 3 month access where you can join the monthly group call and more!
- Digital Course: I have joined the best digital course creation program in order to turn MATRIARCH into a digital course. Although I had initially intended for it to be ready for this round, the timeline has changed. So in the name of serving you best, I’m going to follow my teacher’s guidance and you’ll get access to the course as soon as it’s ready (and have LIFETIME ACCESS!)
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